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Silent Criticism: When Nothing Is Said but It Still Feels Like Judgment
There are moments when nothing obvious has happened, yet something inside you shifts. A conversation ends and you immediately begin replaying it. Someone pauses before responding and your mind starts searching for meaning. A facial expression changes, a reply feels shorter than expected, someone looks away, and suddenly you are left wondering: Did I say something wrong? Did that sound awkward? Maybe they think I should not have said that. Perhaps I came across badly. For many
Melinda Aspell
Mar 273 min read


Head vs Heart: Why Logic Doesn’t Always Change Feelings (The Head–Heart Gap)
Ever told yourself something is completely logical… but still felt the opposite? Your brain may be operating on an outdated emotional system. Learn why and how to bridge the gap.
Melinda Aspell
Mar 125 min read


Managing Cortisol Levels: The Key to Reducing Nighttime Wake Ups
Do you find yourself waking up at 3 a.m. and can’t fall back asleep? Cortisol may be to blame. Find out how regulating your stress hormones may bring sleep back to your nights. What Is Cortisol and Why It Matters Sleep is the body’s most powerful form of restoration but for many, staying asleep can be just as challenging as falling asleep. One of the hidden culprits behind nighttime waking can be cortisol, the body’s primary stress hormone. The good news is that understanding
Melinda Aspell
Oct 22, 20254 min read


The Accessibility of E-Counselling
E-counselling has many benefits over traditional in person counselling, the biggest being it's accessibility.
Melinda Aspell
Feb 18, 20223 min read


The Reemergence of Grief
The reemergence of grief is a natural part of the grieving process and serves as a reminder of how much we cared for our loved one.
Melinda Aspell
Jan 27, 20222 min read
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